Frequently Asked Questions
- What is mediation?
- What are the benefits of mediation?
- What is the mediation process like?
- What is facilitation?
- Why should I hire a professional mediator or facilitator?
What is mediation?
Mediation is a conflict resolution process between two sides of an issue with the help of a neutral, third party (the mediator) who guides the process and assists them in reaching an agreement.
Key features of mediation:
- A mediator provides a safe environment for discussing concerns and differences, creating trust and understanding, and improving communication and problem solving skills.
- Only the participants can make a decision. The mediator has no authority and makes no decisions.
- It is less expensive, easier and more effective than combative forums (grievance processes, EEO investigations, hiring attorneys, etc).
- Mediation is usually private and confidential.
- The parties in conflict and the nature of the conflict determine the specifics of each mediation process – who participates, how many sessions, what constitutes an acceptable agreement, etc.
- Participation is voluntary.
What are the benefits of mediation?
For the participant:
- Get help talking about a difficult subject
- Satisfactory, tangible outcome
- Opportunity for a fresh start
- Ability to come to work without dreading it
- Reduced stress
- Increased sense of job security
For the manager who requests mediation services:
- Burden to solve the problem alone is lifted
- Quicker resolutions
- High agreement compliance rate
- Written agreement to use as a guide in future conversations with employees
- Better working relationship with employees
For the organization:
- 85% success rate
- Less expensive than traditional process of complaints, grievance, discipline, EEO investigations or legal action
- Less time loss than the traditional process
- Improved staff goodwill
- Increased productivity
- Decreased risk of staff turnover
I came to In-Accord because of an emotionally draining and ongoing conflict with a co-worker. I hoped for success, but wondered if substantial gains could be made in such a highly charged situation. Chris’ masterful handling of the situation helped us to create a plan together which greatly reduced animosity and increased compassion and support for each other. I would trust him with any situation requiring calm mentorship and thoughtful guidance.
- Educational services employee
(anonymous due to confidentiality)
What is the mediation process like?
Prior:
- The mediator discusses the conflict with the person who initiated the process.
- The mediator calls both participants and discusses the issues with them to determine their point of view.
- A mediation appointment is set, usually on-site.
During:
- The first session usually takes between 4-5 hours and has four stages:
- Sharing points of view
- Selecting topics for conversation
- Discussion and negotiation
- Agreement
Follow-up:
- Sometimes there is another 2-3 hour mediated session, if both parties decide it would be helpful.
- There is always a 6 week follow-up session to check in.
What is facilitation?
Facilitation is a service provided by an impartial third party (the facilitator) who helps a group make effective decisions using a process that is cooperative, inclusive, and efficient.
Key features of facilitation:
- Facilitation can be especially helpful for groups with many participants, diverse interests, and/or anticipated or historical conflict.
- A facilitator can help a group move beyond conflict or inaction into productive dialogue, real problem solving, effective planning and results.
- Prior to the facilitation, the facilitator works with group members to address potential challenges, determine the process and define the desired outcomes.
- Key points, agendas, roles and results are defined.
- Concrete results are attained such as written agreements, strategies, to-do lists, assignments, next steps, follow-up, etc.
Why should I hire a professional mediator or facilitator?
- Impartial third party who has no personal investment in the outcome of the process
- Perceived by employees and organization members as neutral
- Trained individual who uses proven techniques to forge agreements
- High success rate improves chances of resolution
- More effective and less expensive than allowing damaged relationships to fester and infect the work environment
