In-Accord

Frequently Asked Questions

 

What is mediation?

Mediation is a conflict resolution process between two sides of an issue with the help of a neutral, third party (the mediator) who guides the process and assists them in reaching an agreement.

Key features of mediation:

  • A mediator provides a safe environment for discussing concerns and differences, creating trust and understanding, and improving communication and problem solving skills.
  • Only the participants can make a decision. The mediator has no authority and makes no decisions.
  • It is less expensive, easier and more effective than combative forums (grievance processes, EEO investigations, hiring attorneys, etc).
  • Mediation is usually private and confidential.
  • The parties in conflict and the nature of the conflict determine the specifics of each mediation process – who participates, how many sessions, what constitutes an acceptable agreement, etc.
  • Participation is voluntary.
 

What are the benefits of mediation?

For the participant:

  • Get help talking about a difficult subject
  • Satisfactory, tangible outcome
  • Opportunity for a fresh start
  • Ability to come to work without dreading it
  • Reduced stress
  • Increased sense of job security

For the manager who requests mediation services:

  • Burden to solve the problem alone is lifted
  • Quicker resolutions
  • High agreement compliance rate
  • Written agreement to use as a guide in future conversations with employees
  • Better working relationship with employees

For the organization:

  • 85% success rate
  • Less expensive than traditional process of complaints, grievance, discipline, EEO investigations or legal action
  • Less time loss than the traditional process
  • Improved staff goodwill
  • Increased productivity
  • Decreased risk of staff turnover

I came to In-Accord because of an emotionally draining and ongoing conflict with a co-worker. I hoped for success, but wondered if substantial gains could be made in such a highly charged situation. Chris’ masterful handling of the situation helped us to create a plan together which greatly reduced animosity and increased compassion and support for each other. I would trust him with any situation requiring calm mentorship and thoughtful guidance.

- Educational services employee
(anonymous due to confidentiality)

 

What is the mediation process like?

Prior:

  • The mediator discusses the conflict with the person who initiated the process.
  • The mediator calls both participants and discusses the issues with them to determine their point of view.
  • A mediation appointment is set, usually on-site.

During:

  • The first session usually takes between 4-5 hours and has four stages:
    • Sharing points of view
    • Selecting topics for conversation
    • Discussion and negotiation
    • Agreement

Follow-up:

  • Sometimes there is another 2-3 hour mediated session, if both parties decide it would be helpful.
  • There is always a 6 week follow-up session to check in.
 

What is facilitation?

Facilitation is a service provided by an impartial third party (the facilitator) who helps a group make effective decisions using a process that is cooperative, inclusive, and efficient.

Key features of facilitation:

  • Facilitation can be especially helpful for groups with many participants, diverse interests, and/or anticipated or historical conflict.
  • A facilitator can help a group move beyond conflict or inaction into productive dialogue, real problem solving, effective planning and results.
  • Prior to the facilitation, the facilitator works with group members to address potential challenges, determine the process and define the desired outcomes.
  • Key points, agendas, roles and results are defined.
  • Concrete results are attained such as written agreements, strategies, to-do lists, assignments, next steps, follow-up, etc.
 

Why should I hire a professional mediator or facilitator?

  • Impartial third party who has no personal investment in the outcome of the process
  • Perceived by employees and organization members as neutral
  • Trained individual who uses proven techniques to forge agreements
  • High success rate improves chances of resolution
  • More effective and less expensive than allowing damaged relationships to fester and infect the work environment